Have you ever felt stuck in the Rat Race, like you’re running on Autopilot, and you just need to get away for a while?

by: admin Wednesday, August 12th, 2009

Sometimes we feel just stuck. Stuck with a job which may not be our biggest passion in life or with having to fit everything in to the kids school schedule. We feel stuck because of the payments for all the stuff we, for some reason, have gathered, or with a life that just isn’t exactly what we had expected it to be, and now we don’t see a way out of it.

We were there too. We had our own company which took all of our time (and more it seemed). We drove the kids to a school where they spent their days actually neither gathering much knowledge nor learning the precious skills of socialization. We rebuilt and refurbished our huge old house in a never ending scheme. We didn’t have any time to just be together and have fun, do things we really loved, or to be with friends. We also never seemed to have enough money.

When we got to the point where we’d finally had enough, we got rid of our company, sold our house, took the children out of school and just left.

Our first long journey

Our first long journey

Thus began our first long term journey, as we spent 5 months in a campervan touring Europe all the way to southern Spain.Along the way we had many adventures. However, it wasn’t always easy, and when we arrived at our destination it was with a sigh of relief.

We had done it! We had taken ourselves to a new place, both geographically but especially mentally! To us, that was the big turning point. We have been on many long term trips around the world since then, and we’ve never gotten back into the 9 to 5 Rat Race or into the school system. We have, to a very big extent, lived the life we have chosen to live – our life.

For us, as for thousands of other people, what took us from where we didn’t want to be to where we wanted to be, was leaving everything behind and setting out on a long journey.

A life transforming journey that totally changed our perspectives and our ideas on what we wanted out of life. This trip provided us with lots of time, many new meetings and inspiration and energy to start all over again.

It is possible for you, too, to travel and get perspective on your own life and we’re here to support you as you take the necessary steps to go on that life changing dream journey. As you give yourself time to just be, you will also find adventure, excitement and peace of mind. Not only will you spend time with yourself and your loved ones, but your life will be full of new, interesting people and inspiring situations

Doing some Extended World Travel is one of the absolute best ways to start off a new life.

A shorter journey may give you a welcomed break, but once you get back you will most likely soon find yourself back in the same old situation again. But with a longer journey, you have the possibility to let your life take on a new direction if you choose to. Extended travel is perfect if you wish to make a major shift in your life to a “new” you, or find your way back to the “old” you that you may have lost along the way.

We believe this quote by Jeffrey Kottler, PhD, therapist, teacher and traveler, sums it up perfectly:

“Traveling can bring out parts of yourself that can’t be accessed any other way. Always looking for more efficient and effective ways to promote personal changes, I realized that most of the constructive growth I’ve undergone in my life has not come from books, or the classroom, or even therapy, but from traveling – especially the kind of trip that involves not just the search for new experiences in the world, but also the time and inclination to look within”


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4 Responses to “Have you ever felt stuck in the Rat Race, like you’re running on Autopilot, and you just need to get away for a while?”

Thomas from 2010 Ford Dealer Houston Said:

“Doing some Extended World Travel is one of the absolute best ways to start off a new life.”

Interesting. Not everyone has the money to do this. And what about your children… Do you not value education either? Without education they will go nowhere in this life. I think its selfish to take that away from them just because you want to travel. There is homeschooling but when it comes to them going to high school or, even more importantly, college you’re children will have no idea what the education system is like on a structured scale to a degree.

Comment made on November 12th, 2009 at 11:42 pm
Magnus Said:

Thomas – Thank you for your comment.
Not everyone has the money for a new Ford either :lol: . But if you study our website a little bit more you will find that we try to give advice and inspiration to how it is possible to make a longer journey also on a much tighter budget. It is even possible to make money while traveling…

Regarding children and education. There are of course different ways to look at education. We are not completely convinced that a school setting is the only or best way for good learning although it is the most common and accepted one in society. Too us the real life education through for instance traveling is superior to the one offered in most schools.

Regarding your worry for our children’s education I can calm you by saying that our two oldest got their high school diplomas and can if they choose to go on to College/University studies. This was also achieved through homeschooling. The youngest one is still completing his diploma. And as a curiosity and to many peoples surprise I can tell you that home schooled children are often very thought after by Colleges because of their good study discipline. The home schooled children have a good effect on the other traditional schooled students.

There is more information on extended traveling and school at
http://www.extendedworldtravel.com/i-love-to-travel-but/children-and-school and
http://www.extendedworldtravel.com/i-love-to-travel-but/children-and-school/school-ideas

Comment made on November 13th, 2009 at 2:05 pm
Maria Said:

I could write a book about this (and probably will :grin: )

Regarding the education of children, well, that’s actually one of the major reasons that we have been traveling :grin:

As we see it, children learn everywhere and from everything and when you travel and are immersed in lots of new situations and circumstances, you learn an awful lot. Not only about different subjects, but also about how to handle different situations and about your own talents and abilities.

As I said, children and education are subjects that are very close to my heart and I have to limit myself in my writing here, but, I was thinking about our first long term trip. When our oldest went back to school (she went to school for 2.5 years) after having been traveling for 6 months, both she and we parents could immediately see how much more she had learned about, well actually, everything, then her classmates. That’s when we decided to homeschool and to let traveling be part of it.
From there, all our kids have a very broad education now and the oldest now also their High School Diplomas. They have taken their diplomas through homeschooling as well, or should we call it, through “World Schooling” a term I recently came across and I love it!
Our oldest has also studied a bit at the university, without any “education structure problems”, quite the opposite.
I’m not saying that either homeschooling or traveling suites everyone or is the right way for everyone. What I do want to question is the idea that education only can be provided to children in one specific way and place and through a school system.
I don’t believe this is the only way to do this, actually, I don’t even think it’s the best way!

Also, as Magnus already has pointed out, traveling doesn’t have to be expensive and you don’t have to be rich to do it. There are many ways to have a travelng lifestyle, and some ways can even be cheaper than living a “normal” 9 to 5 with cars, house and mortgages.

Thank you Thomas for your comment!

Comment made on November 13th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Gabi Said:

Hi Thomas

We did both, school and travelling (so we can’t really say we homeschooled).
Our children were surprised how much and with how much fun you learn while travelling. They didn’t even realize they were learning. The learning was so natural, it was amazing how effective it was. Then, after six months, our children went back to school. They hadn’t missed much, in fact, they were ahead of the others. Our oldest, now in 10th grade has fun learning, it seems to be much easier for him now.
Because while away from school he had time to contemplate what’s important for him in life. Normally children don’t find to time to think about that. But once they do, learning – also in school – makes more sense.
Our children learned English in order to connect with people and not for some exam they didn’t like. And isolated grammar which they forget right after the exam anyway.

It might not be the best solution for everybody. We really enjoyed our time together and the chidren highly benefited.
Greetings, Gabi

Comment made on November 16th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
 

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